-bernadette-’s Neighborhood

a lil too preoccupied as well.
heh.

Love-wallpaper

1. hung out with pixie and ifah. no mon.
2. clubbed 3 Saturdays consecutively.
3. met a guy at the club [will elaborate below ;)]
4. got a verbal warning from my manager.
5. getting to noe a pakistani guy who is really hot.
6. finally got rid of the damn boring guy.
7. made a friend half-way round the world [will elaborate on that below. hehehe]
   
8. had an interesting conversation with the ex [will elaborate below as well -_-]
9. finally getting back on track with work.
10. enjoying the effects of smoking reds again.
11. not having a care in the world about what others may think about me.

ANYway, lets elaborate on point 3 first [which will encompass a nite from point 2. wahaha!] two Saturdays ago, headed to Arena as usual. we were all set to have a night of fun and laughs. then came this dumbass who didnt want to take no for an answer and so sis almost ended up being punched by this muhfucka and i of course became the saviour. pfft. i hate men like that. just cos we ladies show that we aren't intimidated by them, they gotta show us how MANLY they are. pffft.
so after all the commotion, we moved to another table and so the fun began. now, normally if a guy, a total stranger, asked me to dance with him i would say no. this time though, when this one particularly cute guy asked me to dance with him, i turned to my sis to ask if it was ok with her, and i danced with him. it was fantastic. dancing with him was the best decision i made so far [that night of course! lol].
he wasn't all over me like the other guy i danced with. he didn't do the whole bump-bump dance routine either. it was a decent dance. of course, his hands did roam down to the rear south... but it wasn't in an offensive manner. he wasn't even grabbing! it was more like...carassing? haha.
we danced for awhile then he asked for my name. i have no idea WHY i gave my name as Mila dat nite. i normally give Sha. ANYway, he told me to wait and he'll be back later. i just said sure. i didn't expect him to come back and dance with me again...but he DID!! he actually came back to the dancefloor with his friend and he was looking for me! lol.
halfway through, i walked away from him and he actually chased me and pulled me back to dance with him. omfg. i have never, EVER, had that experience before! it was UH-mazing!
he then asked for my number and as i was keying it i was thinking to myself..."this dude is so drunk he's not even gonna remember my name or who i am the moment he wakes up!" but what the heck, i gave him my number. again, not something i would normally do!
eventually i had to leave and so i said goodbye and left.
a few minutes later, he walked out of the club as well. i thought he was just gonna be one of those guys who would just dance with a girl, take their number and buzz off.
he surprised me!
i was standing outside smoking and he spotted me. he told his friend to hold up and came up to me to ask if i had given him my number already. while he was talking to me, his friend actually went up to my sister to ask her if it was ok for this guy to get to know me!! how cute is that?? haha. so, i showed him that i had already entered my number and as i was about to go, he went in for a kiss. hahaha. missed though. i pulled away and just said GOODBYE!
he was gracious about it though. not like some other guys i noe who get pissed just cos i dun give in. pffft.
anyhoos, i really didn't expect to hear from him cos i thought that he was too drunk to remember my name or even how i looked like!
he did eventually text me the next day and he has been since. it feels so unreal and i have lost touch. i forgot what it's like to just meet a guy and get to know him. i forgot how to flirt! hahaha!
our phone conversations are nice too. not as boring as some other guys who are trying to woo me. seriously dudes, bragging is NOT the way to get a girl!
well, that's my story for point 3. lets hope that there'll be more stories on this aye?
lol.

i noe i said i'd elaborate on the other points, but i think i wrote enuff already about this one.
i'll continue tomorrow ya?
stay tunned!!

Of course I'm thankful for family and friends but God's mercy and grace are freshest in my mind. Without knowing God I would almost certainly still be lost, guilty, ashamed, and self centered. So today I'd say that I am most thankful for the painful course of events that put me on my knees - a necessary and life saving humbling no doubt. This is my first Turkey day as a believer and it rocks!
-Thanks, Jon Marler (via BlackBerry)

so yesterday was by far the best day for me since the break up! amazingly awesome!

at the gig.

eventhough it was a last minute thing, it turned out to be quite a blast.

went to the gig with Mon, Pixie and Ifah. man it feels good to hang out with Mon again. i seriously missed him ALOT!!

anyhoos, back to the gig. spent the first hour or so laughing at the girls there...head banging away... jumping around and cursing like they are some hard core metal chicks. sheesh.

they may LOOK like they are...but do they know their shit?

i admit. i noe nuts. i go just to enjoy the music. i don't go all out and dress up like them either. though i did feel like i was standing out since i was the only idiot wearing pink to a metal gig! bah.

the highlight of the gig - Dante's Theory. man, their drummer is crazy awesome. he has some fast feet and some crazy eyes. lol.

it was mindblowing. i had to keep shutting my mouth.

after the gig.

at the gig, i also got to meet up with an old flame. haha. my high skool crush. still kinda have a crush on him now. after 11 freaking years!! when i found out that i would be going to the gig with the gang, i decided to text him since he said he may or may not go...

so he was going, and i was broke....and he offered to pay for the ticket for me! so sweet. den wen we erached the gig, he texted me saying he din have enuff cash on him. pfffftt.

mon ended up paying for me first...afterwhich i got some cash from my dad and all was settled.

farhan's band was performing (AsilenT). not too bad a performance. could barely hear the guitar.. all i heard were the drums and the growls. then today he sent me the link to watch the video - man has he got fast fingers!

also bumped into razak and his band mates. i just smiled at him. not too sure if he recognizes me or just pretends not to noe who i am. sheesh. u got a problem with my bro, that's between the two of u, but ignoring me?? dats not cool. lol.

went for dinner after the gig. yikes. so much drama. seriously man, these kids needa grow up already! enuff with the drama!!

chilled at smu. bumped into farhan and his band. FUNNY!!

hang out with the gang till about 4am. the moment Pixie fainted, i bailed. not that i'm being a heartless friend but...seriously?? how can you be fine 1 second then breathless and faint the next??

she deserves an oscar!

in case you were wondering, that's a pic of me giving mon a head massage.

apparently he was having a bad headache.

hehe.

all in all. yesterday was a blast!!!

time to pack up!

lovelove.